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Post by whitepepper on Jan 18, 2005 12:43:16 GMT 6
Sometimes when I totally understand someone, they become ordinary. I get bored of them. I feel like we have nothing more to say to each other. This does not include my friends.
I think it's a problem..what do you think?
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Post by Ru on Jan 18, 2005 15:58:50 GMT 6
I've same problem but I figured it out how to deal with them... ALL YOU GOTTA DO IS SMILE and pretend like you know them and smile!
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Post by Finlip on Jan 18, 2005 17:13:18 GMT 6
Sometimes when I totally understand someone, they become ordinary. I get bored of them. I feel like we have nothing more to say to each other. This does not include my friends. I think it's a problem..what do you think? Please clarify, Tara. I don't quite understand.
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Post by whitepepper on Jan 18, 2005 22:53:53 GMT 6
Ru, nice advice but I can hardly pretend.
Anup...well I meant that I get bored of a particular person after a while.
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Post by Finlip on Jan 19, 2005 10:32:51 GMT 6
Ru, nice advice but I can hardly pretend. Anup...well I meant that I get bored of a particular person after a while. A particular person? Well, who doesn't get bored with people. All people can't be interesting. If someone's boring, either avoid them or talk to them about something else and see if they can seem interesting.
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Post by whitepepper on Jan 19, 2005 11:24:58 GMT 6
Not a particular person. It happens with a lot of people.
And I can't just avoid them so suddenly..guess I'll have to pretend after all.
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Post by Finlip on Jan 19, 2005 11:33:58 GMT 6
Not a particular person. It happens with a lot of people. And I can't just avoid them so suddenly..guess I'll have to pretend after all. Where do you meet these people? If you can just smile and go out from where they are.
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Post by whitepepper on Jan 19, 2005 18:34:49 GMT 6
People in everyday life.
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Post by Finlip on Jan 19, 2005 19:10:45 GMT 6
Read the book, How to deal with difficult people.
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Post by whitepepper on Jan 19, 2005 20:55:29 GMT 6
Lol there's book called that?
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Post by Ally- on Jan 19, 2005 21:15:36 GMT 6
igues if u know verything abt sum1 then it gets too boring i canunderstand that coz there is nothign new left but i guess u just cant ingore them after knowing them so well how abt tkaing a break and then knowing again or i guess jus nned sum1 new into both our ur lives
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Post by whitepepper on Jan 19, 2005 21:59:55 GMT 6
Break...well that's a little difficult for me. But it's not a bad idea.
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Post by blackpepper on Jan 20, 2005 0:53:11 GMT 6
errr. I've got the same problem. Best of the luck with the break part. You know what?? I'll tell you what you can do. When they say something just pretend you didn't hear them and let them repeat and then just say 'Oh, I wasn't listening.' hahhhah ;D Rude, yes, but fun ni. hehehhe
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Post by Ally- on Jan 20, 2005 20:42:01 GMT 6
Break...well that's a little difficult for me. But it's not a bad idea. take a holiday eheh go on a long trip eheh
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Post by Nakkali on Feb 8, 2005 16:23:06 GMT 6
Sometimes when I totally understand someone, they become ordinary. I get bored of them. I feel like we have nothing more to say to each other. This does not include my friends. I think it's a problem..what do you think? [glow=red,2,300] Hi Tara .... Umm i dont think thats a problem actually.... its human nature... U are bound to get bored of certain things after a while.... Cuz u find nothing new bout it anymore ni.. everytime same old thing bhaye pachi bore ta lagne nai bhayo ni haina ra ? Not only u.. sabbai testai ho.... Thats wat i think .... [/glow]
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Post by whitepepper on Feb 9, 2005 2:46:38 GMT 6
Thanks nakkali
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Post by giventofly on Aug 25, 2005 2:36:15 GMT 6
Sometimes when I totally understand someone, they become ordinary. I get bored of them. I feel like we have nothing more to say to each other. This does not include my friends. I think it's a problem..what do you think? I had the same problem. The solution is pretty simple. Here's what I did and believe me, it WORKED! I just tried to spend more time as possible with that person and then I dont know after a little while the relationship between the person and me got better. We got to know the flipside of ourselves and thing were way much better than before. This may sound a bit dumb but hey you can't blame me for that! P.S. I just found out that this topic was posted ages ago, hope you have sorted out the problem by now. Cheers!
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Post by whitepepper on Aug 25, 2005 9:23:41 GMT 6
Well you went on the positive track...I mean, you went ahead and continue the relationship for the good but I don't want anything to do with those people! Anyway, old news.
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Post by Finlip on Sept 1, 2005 13:04:43 GMT 6
When I went deep and thought about Tara's problem in this thread, I realized that even I have that problem at times. There's sometimes nothing to talk about with even those people I think I'm closest to. So there is a long silence. But if I get started again, I won't be able to stop. It's just a matter of being able to think the right thing at the right time. There is always something left to talk about. Sometimes one word can start it.
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Post by whitepepper on Sept 11, 2005 7:37:01 GMT 6
Silence is not bad. Hatred and revulsion is.
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